Taking a Sick Day

My son and I are both home from school and work today with the common viruses running around this time of year. He’s been to the doctor and has received appropriate treatment, but that cough is still alive and kicking.

My friend Linda just knocked on the door. Her father is our son’s pediatrician yet she didn’t come by with a written prescription from the good doctor. She came by with a home remedy from her mother-in-law – freshly-brewed lemongrass tea and stalks of fresh lemongrass.

She said lemongrass tea is a natural antibiotic and cough suppressant and gave me more stalks so I could brew more as needed. “It’s best to drink it throughout the day,” she said.

We would try anything at this point. I poured Patrick a cup; he drank it and reported, “Mom! I stopped coughing.” I then treated myself to a cup of the delicious brew.

I had never seen lemongrass before and Linda brought me a fresh stalks from the Grand Mart which is known for carrying items you can’t get elsewhere. I’m brewing some now and the lemony smell is wafting through the house. Linda said to simply boil water, clean the stalks, discard the green upper part, slice like celery and add to the boiling water for about 15 minutes. Guess what?…she’s bringing by homemade chicken soup later. Now that’s hospitality on the move.

The Spice Cake

Never underestimate the power of home remedies, there are many out there and they work. When I was little I often had bronchitis, sometimes it lasted all winter. My mom would rub my little bony back and chest with camphorated oil. I have no idea if it worked but the smell cleared my sinuses and the massage from mom was comforting.

One day I was so sick and she said she was baking me a “spice cake.” Oh! My little mouth watered in anticipation of the sweet confection. I had never eaten a spice cake before! What would it taste like? I stayed in my bed waiting for it to be done baking.

My mother came to my room with something in a pan that looked nothing like a cake. It was two pieces of flannel filled with vaporous smells. It was a spice poultice! She made me a spice poultice, warmed it in the oven and pinned it to the inside of my jammies next to my t-shirt. Those are really fond memories of her typical nurturing and care. How many of you still want your mothers when you’re sick? I’ve since made the poultice for my own son.

How to Make a Spice Poultice

Take two pieces of soft cloth, maybe flannel from a worn-out nightie, and cut into a 12” x 12” square. Spread one piece of flannel with Vicks VapoRub®. On top of the rub, sprinkle generous helpings of cinnamon, cloves, nutmeg, allspice and dry mustard. Take a needle and thread and rudely stitch the two pieces of cloth together. Heat in a low oven until warm. Do not place the warm poultice next to the skin but rather on top of a tee shirt with another shirt (preferably jammies) over that.


Don’t Eat That Cookie Dough…Yet!

I know it’s not popular advice to tell the kids not to eat raw cookie dough due to uncooked eggs, so why not make a cookie filled with something that mimics the taste and texture of uncooked chocolate chip cookie dough?

These cookies were a hit with all of us. Who doesn’t enjoy a finger full of dough every now and then? This recipe is from Chef in Training. Check it out – Nikki has a long list of imaginative cookies.

Homemade Cookie Dough Oreo Cookie Recipe

If you like cookie dough, these are for you!


  • 1 box devil’s food cake mix, dry, not prepared
  • 2 eggs
  • 1/3 cup oil


  • 10 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened
  • 2/3 cup brown sugar
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla
  • 1 envelope Dream Whip® whipped topping mix, not prepared
  • 2-4 tablespoons milk
  • 1/2 cup flour
  • 3 cups powdered sugar
  • 2/3 cup mini chocolate chips

To make the cookies, mix the cake mix, eggs and oil until combined. Roll into small balls and gently flatten on cookie sheet. Bake at 350 degrees for 8-10 minutes. Do not over bake, cookies should be soft. Cool completely.

For the frosting, cream butter in a large bowl. Add brown sugar, vanilla and Dream Whip and cream together. Add milk, flour and powdered sugar, bet until smooth. Frosting should be somewhat thick, add as much milk as you want to reach desired consistency. stir in mini chocolate chips. Can chill frosting if you want to work with it thicker.

Frost bottom half of cookie then top it with another cookie. You can freeze the cookies and thaw and frost when ready to serve. Make about two dozen.





The Sights, Smells and Memories of 2014

As we enter into 2015, here’s a look at 2014 and some of our favorite recipes and stories. Click on the links to enjoy them. (Above: Winter 2014, If You Build it They Will Come)

Thanks for being part of the Kelley Hospitality blogging family. I wish you all the best for a happy, healthy and prosperous new year.



[Almond] Joy to the World!

My memories of Christmas are mostly about the cookies mom made every year. There was frenetic baking starting after Thanksgiving and frenetic nibbling by me.

I’ve been making her cookies for years, but I’ve decided to add some new ones to mom’s repertoire. Our son loves Almond Joy candy bars, so I know this is one he’ll never forget. I hope he has memories of home-made Christmas cookies like I do.

This recipe is from Chef in Training. Check it out – Nikki has a long list of fun and yummy cookies. This one is a keeper.

Almond Joy Pudding Cookies

This chewy cookie has all the ingredients of the famous candy bar.


  • 2-1/2 cups flour
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda
  • 3/4 cup unsalted butter, softened
  • 1/4 cup sugar
  • 3/4 cup brown sugar
  • 1 small box of instant chocolate pudding mix
  • 2 eggs
  • 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 1/2 teaspoon almond extract
  • 1-1/2 cups chocolate chips
  • I cup almonds, sliced
  • 4 ounces melted chocolate for drizzle (can use candy melts or chocolate chips)


  • 1/2 cup evaporated milk
  • 1/2 cup sugar
  • 12 large marshmallows
  • 5 ounces coconut (about 1 cup)
  • 3 cups powdered sugar

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Sift together flour and baking soda and set aside.

In large bowl, cream butter and sugars. Add pudding package and beat until well blended. Add eggs, vanilla and almond extract and beat until well incorporated. Add flour mixture slowly until well incorporated. Stir in chocolate chips. Roll into one-inch balls and place on greased baking sheet.

Bake at 350 degrees for 8-12 minutes. Cool cookies before icing.


In a medium saucepan, add evaporated milk and sugar and bring to a boil being careful not to burn. Once it reaches a boil, remove from heat and stir in marshmallows until melted. You can keep the heat on low until the marshmallows are melted. Once marshmallows are melted add coconut and stir. Add powdered sugar and beat until smooth.

Frost cooled cookies with icing.

Sprinkle almonds on top.

Drizzle melted chocolate over the tops.


The Good is Now

I’ve been touching and studying Gran’s dishes for decades – running my fingers over the hand-painted raised, pink flowers. Many solitary hours of my childhood were spent exploring the china cabinet and any nooks with pretty clutter. I organized and rearranged dishes, silver, china, Carnival glass, and more.

Gran’s dishes were the ones I loved because mom loved them. She searched antique shows and shops to find matching pieces. Back then there was no Internet for quick searches and free shipping. I remember her excitement when she came home with another piece. Victory!

But she never used them. Why? Maybe because there was only service for six. Or maybe they were just too precious, something you “saved for good.” That was the way a lot of Depression-era folks thought…save the good stuff, you might not get it again.

Gran’s dishes are Noritake’s Azalea pattern, hand-painted with gold trim. Because of the stamp on the back, this particular pattern was manufactured pre-World War II in Japan in the original factory owned by Ichizaemon Morimura.

Mom gave me those dishes. I never asked for them, she just knew. I’ve never used them until this year. This Thanksgiving there were only six of us so I had enough plates. Instead of my usual go-all-out tablescape, I kept it simple…simply Gran.

The moral of the story: use that stuff you were saving for good. The good is now.

Lucy…Don’t Try This at Home!

Today, December 13, is St. Lucy’s Day or Santa Lucia Day. The day is celebrated in Norway and Sweden when girls dress in white dresses with red sashes and wear wreaths of candles on their heads. (That’s the part not to try at home.) In the Julian calendar, December 13 marked the winter solstice and the candles gave light to the longest day of the year. Saint Lucy Day is also celebrated in Italy.

Santa Lucia Buns, made with a rich, saffron dough, are the traditional treat for the day. They’re fun to make, so gather the kids to help roll the dough and make the whimsical twists. You might have a new Christmas tradition….and lots of memories.

Santa Lucia Buns

From the Silver Palate Good Times Cookbook

  • 1 cup light cream (I used half and half)
  • 3/4 cup sugar
  • 1/2 cup (1 stick) butter
  • 1 teaspoon saffron threads
  • 1 teaspoon salt
  • 2 packages active dry yeast
  • 3/4 cup lukewarm water (105-115 degrees)
  • 5-1/2 cup all-purpose flour
  • 2 eggs
  • I egg white, slightly beaten with 2 teaspoons water
  • 1/2 cup golden raisins
  • 1 cup ground almonds
  • 1/4 cup dark raisins

Heat the cream just until hot but not boiling in a saucepan. Remove from heat. Add the sugar, butter, saffron, and salt and stir until the butter is melted. Let cool to room temperature.

Stir the yeast into the warm water in a large mixing bowl. Let stand until foamy, about five minutes.

Stir the cream mixture into the dissolved yeast. Using a wooden spoon, stir in 2-1/2 cups of the flour; beat until smooth. Beat in 2 eggs, the golden raisins, and ground almonds. Gradually incorporate the remaining flour, first stirring with the spoon and then mixing with your hands. The dough will be fairly soft.

Turn the dough out onto a lightly-floured surface and knead until smooth and elastic, 5 to 10 minutes.

Place the dough in a large buttered bowl and turn to coat with butter. Let rise, covered with a damp towel, in a warm place until doubled in bulk, about 1-1/2 hours.

Punch the dough down and place on a lightly-floured surface. Cut into 20 pieces. Roll the dough into ropes on a work surface and shape on greased cookie sheets in any of the ways that follow below.

Cover the buns with a damp towel and let rise until doubled in bulk, about 45 minutes.

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

Just before baking, brush the buns with the egg-white wash.

Bake until golden brown, 12 to 15 minutes. Remove to wire racks to cool. Serve warm or at room temperature with plenty of butter.


Wagon Wheels: Roll two pieces of dough into 10-inch ropes, one-half inch wide. Place the two strips side by side on the cookie sheet. Pinch all but the ends together and coil each of the four ends as in the photo (right). Press a dark raisin in the center of each coil.

Santa Twists: Roll one slightly smaller piece of dough into an eight-inch rope, one-half inch wide. Coil the ends in the opposite direction, making an S that resembles the photo (left).

Santa Lucia Buns: Roll two pieces of dough into 10-inch ropes, one-half inch wide. Make an X with the ropes. Coil each end counterclockwise to resemble the diagram. Press a dark raisin in the center of each coil (center photo).


In Your Handwriting

We blog, text, and email our recipes to family and friends. But, there’s nothing like a hand-written recipe. Mom didn’t have a computer way back when. She used pretty little recipe cards with her unique and familiar cursive.

The Internet has made finding recipes easy and quick. But, take the time to write some of your family favorites down on paper for your kids…in your own handwriting. It’s all part of the memory.

I just made mom’s fudge from her well-worn recipe card.  She made it every year at Christmas. Her directions are vague and the jar sizes don’t exist anymore. But I get it as close as I can every Christmas season.

A Family Christmas Gift to Cherish: Scan a cherished, hand-written family recipe and print it on iron-on transfer paper for fabric. (Available from Michaels, Walmart and craft stores.) Follow the directions on the package to iron on your family recipe on an apron. Plain colored aprons can be purchased at Bed, Bath and Beyond and similar stores.

Mom’s Peanut Butter Fudge
From the kitchen of Lois Garneau

  • 1 box confectioner’s sugar (1 pound or 4 cups)
  • 3/4 stick margarine (no butter, seriously, use Parkay margarine)
  • 1/2 cup milk (any kind will do, I used skim)
  • 1 twelve-ounce jar of peanut butter (about 1-1/2 cups)
  • 1 nine-ounce jar of marshmallow cream (closest I could find is 7.5 ounces)


In saucepan, mix confectioner’s sugar, margarine and milk. Cook and stir for about 6-1/2 minutes until it boils. It should be at the candy soft ball stage.

Add peanut butter and marshmallow cream. Beat by hand, Pour into square pan. Cool and cut.